{"product_id":"ask-surebilir-mi-zamana-karsi-romantik-askin-kaderi-okuyan-us-yayinlari-i̇nce-kapak","title":"Aşk Sürebilir mi? Zamana Karşı Romantik Aşkın Kaderi | Okuyan Us Yayınları (İnce Kapak)","description":"\u003cp align=\"center\" class=\"paragraph\" style=\"text-align: left;\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAşk Gerçekten Biter mi Yoksa Biz mi Ondan Vazgeçeriz?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eRomantik aşkın zamana yenik düştüğüne neredeyse hepimiz inanırız. İlk günlerin heyecanı, arzu ve tutku sanki kaçınılmaz biçimde solup gider; yerini güvenli ama renksiz bir birlikteliğe bırakır. Peki ya sorun aşkın kendisinde değilse?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eStephen A. Mitchell, çağdaş psikanalizin en güçlü isimlerinden biri olarak, bu yaygın kabule itiraz ediyor ve çarpıcı bir soruyla karşımıza çıkıyor: Aşk gerçekten sürmez mi yoksa onu sürdürülemez hale biz mi getiriyoruz?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eRomantik Aşkın Kaderini Yeniden Düşünmek\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cem\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAşk Sürebilir mi?: Zamana Karşı Romantik Aşkın Kaderi,\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e aşkın neden zamanla zorlaştığını, “düzeltilmesi gereken bir sorun” gibi ele alındığını ve çoğu ilişkide tutkunun nasıl bastırıldığını psikanalitik bir bakışla inceliyor. Mitchell’a göre romantik aşkın en büyük düşmanı zaman değil; aşırı güvenlik, aşırı kontrol ve riskten kaçma isteğimiz.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eKitap, uzun süreli ilişkilerde sıkça karşılaştığımız şu çelişkilere odaklanıyor:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eGüvenlik ile tutku neden aynı anda var olmakta zorlanıyor?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003e“Sorunsuz ilişki” ideali aşkı neden canlı tutmuyor, aksine köreltiyor?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYakınlık arttıkça arzu neden azalıyor?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eİlişkilerde huzur arayışı neden çoğu zaman cansızlığa dönüşüyor?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAşkı Kurtarmaya Çalışmayan Bir Kitap\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBu kitap bir “ilişki kurtarma rehberi” değil. Kolay çözümler, maddeler halinde öneriler ya da mutlu son vaatleri sunmuyor. Bunun yerine okura şunu teklif ediyor: Aşkı idealize etmekten vazgeçmek. Mitchell, romantik aşkın ancak belirsizlik, risk ve karşılaşma ihtimaliyle var olabileceğini savunuyor. Aşkı tamamen güvenli hale getirmeye çalıştığımızda, onu yavaş yavaş etkisizleştirdiğimizi gösteriyor. Bu yönüyle \u003cem\u003eAşk Sürebilir mi?\u003c\/em\u003e rahatlatıcı değil ama dürüst, sarsıcı ve ufuk açıcı bir kitap.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e\u003cspan\u003eRisk Almadan Sevemeyeceğinizi Hatırlatan Bir Klasik\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBu kitap aşkın sürüp sürmeyeceğine karar vermiyor; bunun yerine şu soruları soruyor:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAşkın sürmesi ne pahasına olmalı?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eTutkuyu kaybetmeden güvenli bir ilişki mümkün mü?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYakınlık her zaman iyi midir?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAşkta risk almaktan neden bu kadar korkuyoruz?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"eop\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp class=\"paragraph\"\u003e\u003cspan lang=\"EN-US\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cspan class=\"normaltextrun\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eVe belki de en önemlisi: Aşkı kaybetmekten mi yoksa onun bizi dönüştürmesinden mi korkuyoruz?\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003e(Tanıtım Bülteninden)\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e","brand":"Okuyan Us Yayınları","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51733614100760,"sku":"book_dyk_9786255634511","price":12.8,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0760\/4132\/2776\/files\/YRrIik7UxXnmxC2Nn53e0jYlzkuD7rhKwteILReh.jpg?v=1772235235","url":"https:\/\/dunyadakitap.com\/products\/ask-surebilir-mi-zamana-karsi-romantik-askin-kaderi-okuyan-us-yayinlari-i%cc%87nce-kapak","provider":"Dünyada Kitap","version":"1.0","type":"link"}